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Karmama's avatar

Exactly - how often does one have the opportunity to speak directly with the ostensible "other?" << wander on down and engage, banter, gently educate>> yes do a, b and c - be sure to initiate and proceed with focused, zeroed-in listening. Listen closely, then listen some more. Then repeat back what you believe you've heard, to validate and to show that you've been listening. With a dyed-in-the-wool MAGA ("unredeemable") this could be agonizing for the diligent listener. Try anyway because, hell, what have we got to lose. For the agreeable or confused, what a moment! Your sort-of captive audience may respond with some degree of openness, if they feel they have been genuinely heard.

No political expertise here, but an old-hand nurse who enjoyed taking the "most difficult patient" when nobody else wanted them - and not infrequently got the tough ones "eating out of my hand."

Pardon my own pedantics. It's fun to elaborate on your terrific suggestion.

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Linda MacDonald's avatar

Thank you so much for your reflections on the current state of affairs and how the past is never in the past. I too remember Kent State, being a college student in Cincinnati at that time. It would not be long before I would be seeing my country from the distance of Germany through the eyes of colleagues at a state theater in the state of Nordrhein Westfallen. That experience continues to offer wisdom and even hope in our own fraught time.

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